#controlfreak Yep. I said it. Become a control freak! We like to be in control. If we can control things then we feel like we can predict the outcome. If we can predict the outcome then we're in a better position to protect ourselves from danger. This is the way our brains are designed. It allows us better chances for survival. It's NORMAL and quite good when we're in a life-or-death situation. However, the majority of the time we are not in a life-or-death situation.